Just found this after finding Kasidie, so I don't know if anyone would see this post, but...wondered if there are any true lifestyle resorts, which understand that open-air sex is way cool, that don't have a "no public sex" dictum?
We have a private back yard with pool and spa in N. Texas where a lot of sexual activity goes on over the summer months (and in the spa even in the dead of winter, here), and would only want to frequent such 'nudist' or 'lifestyle friendly' resorts if what I can do at home can be done there, too. Why should I have to scale back my natural enjoyment if the resorts don't make provision for such activities to go on? I'm not asking to lay her out on the table at dinner while everyone moves aside, but would expect there to be some comfortable and not-so-private places to have open-air sex if they want my money and attendance. If it has to be behind closed doors, I can do that at home or off-premises parties, too, so I'm trying to figure out how to find such places.
Anyone know of those resorts that are a lot more tolerant and make space for natural sexual expression at these resorts?
I usually attend Sea Mountain Inn in so California. This resort is so lifestyle friendly. You walk in and find yourself in another world. I've heard guest leave saying its like fantasy island. Its a great place to go when you don't have the time or money to go out of the country.
The experience of Cap d'Agde, the nude "city" on the French Mediterranean, shows how nudists and swingers co-exist. The swingers tend to push the boundaries with sexual actions in public places. For example, the police substation, above the swinger-frequented beach, keeps things from getting out of control. However, nudist complaints to the Mayor and police result in periodic crack-downs. The third community, nudist gay men, has also experienced police crack-downs. Will the nudist/swinger communities have to decide how to approach that in the USA?
Both swingers and nudists are necessary for the continued financial survival of the naturist quarter of Cap d'Agde. Nudists do not frequent the restaurants and clubs enough to keep them in business. Swinger numbers are insufficient to keep the businesses going either. The French politicians seem to realize that fact and maintain a healthy balance between the two communities. The question is whether USA politicians will behave in a similar balanced manner. Can they, as the French, not overreact to periodic fights among friends as nudists and swingers grow into a healthy respect for each other?
Great article and its timeliness if almost uncanny. We recently took a FAM trip with Castaway Travels this past January to review the New Caliente Caribe Resort in the Dominican Republic, formally Eden brook. The trip consisted of event and travel trip promoters, diehard nudist and many lifestyle club owners. We were among the lifestyle club owner. We (my husband and I) will both tell you undeniably we are not nudist. We have heard over time that many “Nudist” resorts frown on the “Lifestyle Community”. I guess we are seeing more and more of a natural progression from some nudist and lifestylers to merge into what someone on the trip so eloquently put “we are twinners” In-between a Nudist and a Lifestyler. I found that summarization quite fitting for them. They do enjoy the lifestyle and its personal expression of being nudist and also the openness within their personal relationships of being lifestylers. Two, although different, choices of freedoms and expressions they can be very cohesive to each other. I do see more and more resorts taking this approach but would always be respectful of any locations desires for limitations.
We have had the pleasure of spending time at a few of these nudist resorts. They are open, friendly and always comfortable. Even if you choose to wear clothing, no one minds. Not all of them are swinger communities but you never know what happens behind closed doors.