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You really add some great perspective. I have had many of the same thoughts about the lifestyle and the challenges we deal with coexisting in a predominately Vanilla world. As a club owner we constantly hear about lifestylers bond and determined to convert their sexy new neighbors to the lifestyle they themselves have chosen. They have made this decision without taking into consideration any of the new neighbors’ relationship. Maybe their relationship is not as giving as their own and unable to withstand the challenges that do come with being a “swinger” or in the “lifestyle”. The transition from vanilla to lifestyle is not necessarily a given in all cases. Maybe if we took the time to do more observing and less displaying we may learn to appreciate our differences. For differences make what we do so wonderful for ourselves. They allow us to appreciate the freedoms we do have so much more. Respecting others is also respecting us. The lifestyle isn’t for everyone and we should not assume it is.

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Posted by: tabusocialclub | Jun 25, 2008 4:46:07 AM          REPORT ABUSE

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