| OUR COUPLE OF THE MONTH |
September 2008 |
One of the things Nick adores about Paige is that, as beautiful as she is, she's still a "tom boy" at heart. She has an inherent ability to be able to "hang with the guys". So much so, that when Nick's buddies send an email out for a guys night, it reads "Guys, leave the wives at home! PS. Paige (as always) is welcome."
Paige loves Nick's absolute honesty. He's the kind of guy that if you ask him, "Do these pants make my butt look big?" he has no problem saying "yes" if they do.
Their relationship works because neither of them takes themselves too seriously.
"Problems only become problems if you let them." Paige has been known to say. If life throws these two a curve ball, they roll with it and come out stronger in the end.
It's that natural openness and free-spirited nature in their relationship which made them such a good fit for the swinging lifestyle.
Of course their first experience wasn't a good one. A couple talked them into going to a lifestyle friendly club in Phoenix. It sounded like just the kind of thing that might make other couples' butts pucker. But Paige and Nick saw it as one more of life's experiences.
"The club was awful." Paige said. "It was full of single males; I think the other girl and I were the only two girls in the whole place." The bar was a hole in the wall and the clientele matched the décor. "After some guy pushed us into a room and asked us if he could 'watch' I told Nick I'd try a place like that one more time... then never again!"
Shortly after that experience Paige and Nick moved to Houston. While shopping for lingerie on day they came across a flyer for a couples' website. They signed up and found some events and clubs in the area. After a visit to a much nicer club with attractive likeminded couples they came to a dilemma: put up or shut up.
"What happens when a couple asks us to go home with them?" Neither one of them had an answer.
The two make all of their decisions together. They are not the type of folks who drag their mate into situations they are not comfortable with. So after a serious debate, they decided to "put up."
That first night was a most regarded experience in the swinging lifestyle. And today they still love every minute of it.
"We enjoy every minute of each other's company. But when the time is right, expect us to both come out swinging. 
Photos by Flirty n' Fun Photography
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