Megan and Ryan continued to spend time with that particular couple exclusively, enjoying many wonderful experiences with them. Unfortunately those friends eventually moved out of state. They felt the sting of not only missing their friends, but losing their lovers. What had become a regular part of their lives was now missing. Their friends were not going to be replaced easily, but Megan and Ryan began looking to fill the void.

For Megan and Ryan finding other people who were involved in the lifestyle was like walking around in the dark. They flew to Vegas for a vacation, where while at a nightclub someone mentioned a great lifestyle website to them. Megan and Ryan immediately went online to fill out a profile. They immediately began meeting a lot of new friends online.

Megan and Ryan had their fair share learning experiences in the Lifestyle. But it was Ryan who had the largest learning curve. He was surprised to learn that the lifestyle was not how he'd originally imagined it. It was not 'wife swapping', but a far more sexually enlightened experience in which couples make choices together. He learned the importance of discussing individual comfort levels with other potential partners so there are no misunderstandings. They both learned that it was important for them to clearly communicate their wants and needs to each other before playing with others. Most importantly, they learned never to play with anyone while intoxicated, who they wouldn't also be willing to play with while sober! (We've all been there!)

Megan and Ryan love the freedom the lifestyle allows to be themselves while not being judged. The new friends they have made in the last year since joining the Lifestyle are the best relationships they have ever had in their lives. Megan and Ryan take pleasure in finding couples who are open to new ideas, and appreciate being around like-minded individuals.

The lifestyle has strengthened them as a couple and brought them even closer together. Ryan knows they are now more open with each other and communicate better then they ever have. Their sex lives have gone through the roof and they have met great friends whom they just go out with and have fun. They enjoy a heightened level of excitement and awareness between not only each other, but other people, all the time, not just when they are out at a lifestyle event. The best aspect of their relationship after one year in the lifestyle is their blind trust for one another.

Megan and Ryan are not your average couple.  

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