Club BIA Vida's Culture, Community & Guidelines
Hello and welcome! We are Sasha & Steve, the owners of Club BIA Vida and ambassadors to the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) community. Club BIA Vida (BIA) is a private, members-only, lifestyle social club where we focus on fostering an inclusive culture that values "quality over quantity."
If you’re looking for a space to build genuine connections on multiple levels, Club BIA Vida welcomes you with open arms. Our quality-over-quantity philosophy is rooted in our desire to cultivate a truly unique culture at all of our lifestyle parties and events. Quality here is not about physique or type, but about mindset and attitude.
At CLUB BIA VIDA, most of our members know just how deeply we care about maintaining the highest standards of respect within the lifestyle community. Since launching our members-only platform in November 2023, we’ve set clear rules and policies—rooted in our personal values and lived lifestyle experience—to ensure that every member feels safe, respected, and empowered.
Over time, we've had the privilege of watching this amazing community flourish and evolve, thanks to all of your thoughtful input and suggestions. Together, we’ve built something truly special—and we continue to grow stronger, side by side.
What does BIA Vida mean?
Bare. It. All. Life
Few social spaces exisit where it is safe to fully expose your authentic self... both literally and metaphorically. The very foundation of Club BIA Vida is about providing such a space, where you are free & safe to Bare It All.
Conscious Vibes Only: Why We Keep It Clean
At CLUB BIA VIDA, our mission is to create a space where everyone feels safe, sexy, and empowered to show up as their full, authentic selves. That kind of freedom doesn’t come from excess—it comes from intention.
We believe that the deepest connections—whether emotional, physical, or spiritual—are built when we’re present and fully aware. That’s why we maintain a drug-free and moderation-based environment. It's not about being rigid; it's about making space for clarity, consent, and connection.
When you're clear-minded, you're more in tune with your partner’s needs, your own boundaries, and the beautiful energy of those around you. You communicate better, listen deeper, and build trust more naturally. That’s where real intimacy begins.
If you find that you need excessive drinking or drug use to relax or enjoy yourself, this might not be the right space for you—and that’s okay. Our events are not chaotic “free-for-alls.” We’re a conscious, respectful, and sexy AF community that values emotional presence and mutual care.
As such, loud, aggressive, belligerent, or disruptive behavior simply isn’t welcome and will lead to immediate removal. Our shared space deserves protection—and we all play a role in keeping the vibe safe, grounded, and electrifying in all the right ways.
✨ When you're fully present, the connections are real. The intimacy is deeper. The memories last longer. Let's keep it intentional, and make magic together.
You're invited to join CLUB BIA VIDA — The Newbie’s Sexy Space — a private members-only lifestyle club and community located in Lake Elsinore, CA. Designed for couples and select singles, our exclusive club offers a welcoming and sexy environment for those exploring or living the Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) lifestyle. Whether you're brand new or seasoned in the scene, CLUB BIA VIDA is a space where you can connect, play, and be yourself without judgment.
Our motto is “Consent is Sexy!” — and we live by it. We take pride in creating a safe, respectful, and fun atmosphere that honors the values of the lifestyle community. From intimate gatherings to high-energy parties, our events are crafted with intention, designed to celebrate connection, pleasure, and personal freedom.
Join us and experience the culture, the energy, and the unforgettable vibes of CLUB BIA VIDA.
? Emotional Intelligence is Sexy ?
We understand—relationships are beautifully complex. Navigating them takes patience, trust, and emotional awareness. At CLUB BIA VIDA, we believe that emotional intelligence isn’t just valuable—it’s essential. It's what allows us to grow closer to our partners, build meaningful connections with others, and contribute positively to the overall energy of the space.
Practicing emotional intelligence means knowing how to recognize and manage your emotions, communicate with care, and respond thoughtfully to challenging moments. When you're able to approach your partner—and others—with empathy and understanding, you build deeper bonds that go beyond the physical. That’s when the real magic happens.
This environment is designed to be uplifting, joyful, and drama-free. If you're in a space with your partner that feels unsettled, we lovingly ask you to pause and reflect—ask yourself "is this the right time and place for us to connect with others?"
Should tension arise during an event, please take a moment to step into a private space to work things through with intention and respect. If the situation becomes disruptive to others, we’ll need to ask you to leave—and depending on the nature of the disruption, re-entry to future events may not be granted.
At the end of the day, we’re here to create something truly special: a space where respect, communication, and emotional maturity lead the way. Bring that vibe, and you'll not only strengthen your relationship, but also become a beloved part of this vibrant, connected community.
? Because being emotionally in tune? That’s the sexiest thing of all.
Trust, Connection, and Respect
CLUB BIA VIDA is a space of trust, connection, and respect.
We’re proud to create an environment where everyone can feel safe being their sexy, authentic selves.
So ask before you touch, communicate clearly, and bring your best energy—and together, we’ll keep this community thriving.
Embrace being part of a community and have each other's back!
Let’s make every moment magical.
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Keep it sexy,
Sasha & Steve