BIA Wellness Center’s Intimacy Collective: A Special Event Series Embrace authenticity as we "Bare It All" in a collective exploration of the lifestyle community and all things Ethical Non-Monogamy.

Welcome to the BIA Wellness Center’s Intimacy Collective, a series of thoughtfully curated gatherings designed to foster transformative experiences. We invite you to embark on a journey of self-discovery as we explore the intricacies of alternative relationship styles, ethical non-monogamy, and the broader lifestyle community.

By cultivating an environment of trust, respect, and understanding, we aim to challenge preconceived notions, broaden perspectives, and promote personal growth. BIA, standing for Bare It All, reflects our dedication to open, honest dialogue about alternative relationship styles, encouraging participants to embrace their true selves and explore their desires in a safe, non-judgmental space.

CLUB BIA VIDA RULES & BASIC ETIQUETTE

CLUB RULES:

• We have a 1-Strike Policy for all guests.
• No always means No. One No is a No, PERIOD. It should never have to be said twice, nor explained.
• Consent! Consent! No touching unless you have received Verbal consent.
• Please be respectful of people's space.

• Absolutely no illegal drugs, over indulgence of alcohol or fighting are ever allowed.

• No firearms or weapons of any kind allowed on our premises. Violation will result in immediate expulsion and termination of membership.

• No Glass products in the pool or jacuzzi area.
• No Sexual Intercourse in the Pool or Jacuzzi, foreplay is allowed.
• No outs & ins after 9:00 pm.
• Stay 10 feet away from anyone playing, unless you are verbally invited.
• No PHOTOS without explicit permission from staff.
• No diving off or climbing on the grotto.
• We are near a main road & a neighborhood, be properly dressed when walking to and from your car. 
• We are not a public club or storefront, do not just show up unannounced hoping to get in the party. 
• Specifics of our club and location require discression, never share details, including the address, to non-members. Direct them to our site.

SAFETY ETIQUETTE & CONSENT:

Most of our group members are fully aware that we strive to maintain the highest respect expectations possible in the lifestyle community. We want EVERYONE to feel safe and have fun. If you need to engage in excessive drinking or drug use, our group events may not be a good match for you. We don't tolerate behavior that detracts from the experience of our guests. Our events are not a "free for all". To the contrary, we are a warm, caring, thoughtful, and a respectful group. Loud, obnoxious, belligerent, or aggressive behavior will result in removal.

The fastest way to be eliminated from our wonderful group is to be creepy or touch others without asking first. Our #1 motto is CONSENT IS SEXY!! Groping without consent will not be tolerated. In addition, SILENCE DOES NOT EQUAL CONSENT. Never assume it is okay to touch others without receiving verbal consent. For everyone to feel safe, it's essential that everyone can get naked and cut loose without concern about inappropriate touching. Please keep a 10-foot distance from others playing unless you are verbally invited into the mix, including open play areas, cabanas, and rooms. For everyone's benefit, simply ASK BEFORE YOU TOUCH! And then enjoy, lol! :-)

Please consider our diverse community, people come here for various forms of free expression, not just sexual.  Here especially, nudity is not an invitation for sexualized verbal attention. This space is meant to be safe, allowing nudity to be enjoyed without illiciting sexual remarks or cat calls.  

Consent most often has to do with touching, but really, no sexual expression should be forced upon others.  This includes invading others' head space when they are playing. Keep the verbal comentary zipped unless prompted by those playing. This also includes purposefully positioning yourself very close to or directly in front of others to engage in sexualized behavior (masterbating etc.) without receiving verbal consent to do so. 

Don't come here and start arguing with your partner.  Healthy relationships florish in this environment, but it requires a delicate balance, mutual respect and understanding. If your not in a good place with your relationship, carefully consider that this may not be the best environment at the moment. If you miscalculate and are not able to put differences aside until a more appropriate time, respect the harmony and kindly remove yourselves to a more private and appropriate space. We take maintaining this harmony very seriously, and don't take kindly to those who would disrupt it to argue with a partner. If it escalates to the point where we must remove you; you will not be invited to return any time soon.

HEALTH CONSIDERATIONS & SAFETY:

We want all of our friends to be healthy and safe. It's obviously important that our group members make thoughtful individual decisions related to the current health situation. 

Our greatest group strength is the thoughtful way that people put safety first and truly care about how we affect each other. PLEASE DO NOT ATTEND if you have any health risk factors that place you or others in harm's way of the COVID-19 virus or any other sickness. Stay home if you don't feel well, have a cough, have a fever, etc.

We encourage our members to engage in safe sexual practices, bring condoms. On hot days bring sunscreen and drink lots of water. 

We encourage you to always bring your own flasks and water bottles, bring your own beverages, and don't leave your drinks unattended. This is always a good rule of thumb, no matter where you go.