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On The Border

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Location Tulsa, Oklahoma
Event type Club
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On The Border Lifestyle Co. (OTB) is an energetic, inclusive community that's redefining what it means to be part of the lifestyle. Based in Oklahoma, OTB is at the forefront of creating unforgettable experiences, from local meetups to grand scale events like the Over-The-Top Sooner Swing festival. Our mission? To connect like-minded individuals in a welcoming environment where everyone, regardless of race, orientation, or experience level, can explore their desires freely.

A standout feature of OTB is our twice-yearly group trips to the beautiful, sun-soaked beaches of Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. These trips aren't just vacations; they're adventures where our members can live out their wildest fantasies in a judgment-free zone, embodying the spirit of ethical non-monogamy amidst the backdrop of one of the world's most renowned lifestyle resorts. Whether competing in Ms. No Swimsuit (Where we send a contestant for free) or celebrating diversity during Bi Week, these trips epitomize the excitement and connection that define the OTB experience.

At the heart of our operations is Sooner Swing, a lifestyle festival that draws participants from across the nation into the sprawling 120 acres of Sparks America Campground. This festival is a testament to our motto, "Be too loud. Laugh too loud. And do all of it with friends." Offering everything from live music and drag shows to unique experiences like nude ziplining and hot air balloon rides, it's unique even for the lifestyle. Sooner Swing is a showcase of our commitment to creating safe, engaging, and diverse events that cater to the adventurous spirit of our members.

Inclusivity is not just a buzzword for OTB; it's the foundation of our community. We proudly welcome members from all walks of life, including a strong representation from the LGBTQ+ community. Our events are designed to be spaces where anyone can express themselves freely, explore their sexuality, and connect with others who share their values and interests.

Despite our broad appeal, OTB maintains a youthful energy and focuses on attracting a younger, active demographic. Our members thrive on excitement, whether it's through participating in one of our themed parties, engaging in the various activities at Sooner Swing, or joining us on our international adventures. However, what truly sets us apart is our dedication to fostering genuine connections within our community. Through our events and online platforms, members can meet new friends, find potential partners, and become part of a supportive network that extends far beyond the bounds of traditional lifestyle groups.

From the shores of Jamaica to the heart of Oklahoma, OTB is breaking down barriers and building a community where everyone is welcome to explore their desires without judgment. Whether you're a seasoned participant in the lifestyle or just curious about what it all means, OTB offers a dynamic, supportive environment where you can be yourself, discover new passions, and make unforgettable memories. Join us, and experience the excitement, connection, and freedom that only OTB can offer.


Type Off Premise
Exclusiveness Members only, very exclusive
Membership Required Yes , Initiation: $, Fee: $10 per year
Party Admission Cost $100 per weekend
Minimum Age Requirement 21 years old
Single Males Allowed Always
Single Females Allowed Always
Members Typical Sexual Preference Straight males, but many bi-females
Languages Spoken by Staff English 
Off-Premise Club Information
Usual Meeting Place Other
Special Interests Theme Parties  Camping  Naturist/Nudist  BDSM 


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